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Her name is Aunt Kike, a family friend. She came to stay in our house because she was living a wayward kind of life and my mum was a disciplinarian. So her mum brought her to my mum to instil some discipline into the girl.

Aunty Kike sexually molested me. She’ll force me to suck her breast and vagina and threatened to cut off my little penis if I dare tell anyone. This went on for 2years before she finally left our house. I have forgiven her sha.

But I can never forget. How it all acted out is still fresh in my memory. I usually cry every night. I lost appetite for food. She would beat me like a mad person any day I didn’t satisfy her sexual urge. I suffered if I refuse to suck her well or make her climax, that day would be terrible for me.

She’ll beat me. And still lie to daddy that I went to play outside the house. And daddy hates it when we play. He’s so strict and wicked back then. All he was after was for us to study our books. That’s all. She’ll practically place a knife on my penis threatening me that I must not tell or she’ll cut my penis off and cook. I was 7.

I got used to it. Although I didn’t understand what it was, but I got used to satisfying her.

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