BOYS TALK ABOUT IT 1.0

It takes a lot of courage to let this out. Although, I am still working on myself but I will like if I am not connected in any way. But had to say this, because someone might learn one or two lessons from it. It all started when I was in Primary 3, I was […]

I have had up to like three different abuses, and I am just 20. Two of which were from my age mates, and the other one which happens to be the first from a lady who is older (a distant relative, to be precise). I was just 5 then, and I remembered it all started

I was young, went on a vacation with a cousin, he touched me and squeeze my penis until I urinated and it happened many times till I left that place. When I returned the next year, same thing. After that I told no one but kept my distance from him and moved on with my

Well, my story was about a man in the neighbourhood who exposed me to seeing pornography, seeing what they call sperm for the first time by forcing it out. More so, he dipped his big genitals into my anus, which I know was larger than my anus. Few years down the line, I started having

I got raped at age 5 by a young man. This was something he did on Sundays. I grew up hating men; I wouldn’t lie, even though I still date them. I’m a guy by the way though, the hate has subsided after I met a couple of other guys who have proven otherwise. Ever

It was my cousin, about 18/19yrs whom my mum brought to help out with house chores and looking after us. I was 8/9yrs.She introduced me to porn first, then, asked that she checks the size of my penis. On fondling it, it got erect. I had few strands of hair on my pubic region then

The girl/lady was staying with the landlords upstairs. There was a store down where they sold sachet water, ice block and kerosene which she managed because the landlords were already advanced in age. I and my younger bro used to go to the store to play with her, and one of the store doors was

My parents separated at 13 and I had to go live with my grandma. I stayed with her for about 4 years. I had this aunt who always taunts me that my mother is a prostitute and that I was the cause of my parent’s separation. Then one day during my grandma’s travels, she took

I was raped by my sister’s friends. It was around 2004, I was 10, we lived somewhere in Lagos, in a “face me I face you” apartment and at the time only a few apartments had coloured TVs; we couldn’t afford one at the time.  So, I would always find myself going to different houses

Well, I was 8 and I was usually alone with the neighbour. He had his daughters and some of his nieces staying with him.  I respected them and I related to them as they were way older, the youngest was 17. Unknown to me, about 5 of them had a thing for young impressionable boys