Well, my story was about a man in the neighbourhood who exposed me to seeing pornography, seeing what they call sperm for the first time by forcing it out. More so, he dipped his big genitals into my anus, which I know was larger than my anus. Few years down the line, I started having […]
When I was about 6, my older male cousin introduced me to the concept of making out with the same gender. That might’ve been when I got my first erection. No penetrative sex. Then, when I was between the ages of 8 & 9 the female house help also took me a bit further. I
I got raped at age 5 by a young man. This was something he did on Sundays. I grew up hating men; I wouldn’t lie, even though I still date them. I’m a guy by the way though, the hate has subsided after I met a couple of other guys who have proven otherwise. Ever
It was my cousin, about 18/19yrs whom my mum brought to help out with house chores and looking after us. I was 8/9yrs.She introduced me to porn first, then, asked that she checks the size of my penis. On fondling it, it got erect. I had few strands of hair on my pubic region then
The girl/lady was staying with the landlords upstairs. There was a store down where they sold sachet water, ice block and kerosene which she managed because the landlords were already advanced in age. I and my younger bro used to go to the store to play with her, and one of the store doors was
My parents separated at 13 and I had to go live with my grandma. I stayed with her for about 4 years. I had this aunt who always taunts me that my mother is a prostitute and that I was the cause of my parent’s separation. Then one day during my grandma’s travels, she took
I was raped by my sister’s friends. It was around 2004, I was 10, we lived somewhere in Lagos, in a “face me I face you” apartment and at the time only a few apartments had coloured TVs; we couldn’t afford one at the time. So, I would always find myself going to different houses
Well, I was 8 and I was usually alone with the neighbour. He had his daughters and some of his nieces staying with him. I respected them and I related to them as they were way older, the youngest was 17. Unknown to me, about 5 of them had a thing for young impressionable boys
Perhaps we must reiterate that the default thought of most on the notion of sexual abuse is centred on the female gender with little or no care towards the male gender. People think that male victims of sexual abuse enjoy the act of being abused, thus it is not really considered an abuse. To put
In the eyes of the average man, ‘sexual abuse’ as a term was created for a single gender. It rarely extends to accommodate male victims. We live in a society that has turned its back towards the slightest of all inklings that the boy-child or male gender can be a victim of sexual harassment. Today, in
Over the years, issues surrounding the boy-child and his development have not been given enough attention as required, thereby causing the areas essential for his growth to be treated with levity.
